This summer I have met and spoken with a number of people whom English is their second language. Their desire to speak in the language regardless of their skill level is very inspiring. From students to professors to people of other professions, everyone I’ve come across seems ready and willing to share and hear a story.
The favorite topic seems to be love- life and love. In Nanjing, I received an email about what I missed when I decided to go to bed early. The students had a great time getting together and talking about life in general: school, family, friends, and love. In Shanghai, I went out to dinner with one of my roommates at the hostel on my last night there. She had just gotten back from hanging out with a friend from the city. She had a lot on her mind, most of which was love and marriage. She wants to marry for love and sees no point in rushing things, especially if it doesn’t feel right. A wise decision. In Chiang Mai, the students that were our hosts at the University frequently talked about love. Two of them would wander off, and when we’d find them again, we’d ask, “What are y’all doing?” To which they replied, “‘Just talking about life and love.” Here in Hanoi, it’s the same but is usually attached to conversations of marriage. A fellow teacher and I were having tea after lunch and we got on the topic of women, life, family, and future goals. Then he threw in, “It’s probably time for me to find someone.” My reaction? “I can’t believe you just said that…” But in all honesty, we’ll all know when the time comes. In the meantime, it’s a topic that everyone can relate to. And in VIA, the topic still has legs… and men still have hope.
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